L. Update - Resolution

This has been going on since Oct. 2. On Oct. 10 it finally got settled. Here's how. I was afraid, but I stayed strong. In no small part because of the support here. And my dear friend M and my dear friend MA. He did all 5 things on my list, including thinking of something on his own to do. AND he sent me roses. He is very sorry. This was NOT a girlfriend date type thing. I know that for sure. Everyone does. He just, as my dear MA puts it, was not his age - was a little child, saw something shiny (free great seat tickets to major Broadway show) and grabbed the something shiny, even though it meant lying and slithering. He is very sorry. He does not want to lose me. He has done everything he possibly can to make it up to me. I am over it. Forgiven. (And tired and rushed right now...)