You cannot need J. to live.
It makes no sense.
If you did, you would not be a person. You would not exist.
And you would have no hope for future.
You wouldn't be able to sleep, or eat, or walk.
You are *not* dependent on him.
You *are* a person.
Act it.
You will feel it one day maybe soon.
Totally agree here, honey. And you know, all of the things you don't feel like doing because you're too depressed (cleaning, etc.), here's a way you might try thinking about it, just as a suggestion: "Not working isn't an option....it is something I have to do and so I do. And in that same vein, so is cleaning the house, taking out the garbage, cleaning the car, etc. And eating well. It's non discretionary, like going to work." Loving you from the great Northwest.
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